I have had the blessing of speaking to two friends over the past week who have experienced Japan and had quite a bit of insight for me. The first was my friend Roy, I have known him and his wife since the week I got saved. These two know my heart for people and the importance I place on relationships, therefore his insight and encouragement really aided in how I pray for the Japanese people and my preparations for going to spend time with them. Unlike the other countries I have visited, the Japanese aren't quick to trust and welcome you into their lives. He said they are incredibly polite, but not necessarily friendly until they learn they can trust you. Once you have built that trust with them, the relationship that is there is of utmost importance to them.

He was able to give me some background into Japanese history as well. Back in 400 AD Buddhism was introduced to this country and it wasn't until the 1700's that Christian Evangelists entered the scene. At this time the government ordered that the borders be locked...no one was allowed in or out. This order was in effect for 200 years, so the Japanese were on this island, without access to any other countries or people for 200 years. This would explain both their desire to protect themselves as well as the care they take for those relationships once they have them.

My other friend, Liz, was able to give me some special insight as well because she was actually working alongside the same people I am going to be with. She showed me some pics of the city, the church and some of the people I will be working with.

As Liz went to Takamatsu for the first time and saw things with fresh eyes, she had quite a different take on things than Barbara and Mike who have been there for quite a long time. She said there is pretty much no one there that speaks English other than the missionaries, she said that there isn't any diversity in this city, therefore, people will notice me and more times than not, stop and stare, foreigners are rare. But she did say the same as Roy, in that they are unable to leave a visitor without their needs met, they are so helpful and polite.